Stop Fixing, Start Coaching – Why Your Advice Might Be Pushing Your Teen Away

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Hook: “Ever given great advice only for your teen to roll their eyes? Here’s why coaching works better.”
Big Idea: When we jump in to fix, we send the message that they can’t handle it themselves.
Why This Matters:

  • Teens need to feel capable.

  • Advice often lands as criticism.
    Coaching Approach:

  • Instead of giving solutions, ask: “What do you think would help?”

  • Instead of correcting, reflect: “That sounds really tough.”

  • Instead of jumping in, offer choices: “Would you like ideas or do you just need me to listen?”
    Takeaway Mantra: “Hold space, don’t take over.”
    CTA: Join my free coaching session to learn these skills!

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