The Power of Connection – How to Make Your Teen Actually Talk to You

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🎤 Speaking Flow:

Hook: “Ever asked your teen how their day was, and got ‘fine’? It’s frustrating, right?”
Big Idea: Connection is the foundation of influence. The more safe they feel, the more they share.
Why This Matters:

  • Teen brains are wired for independence.

  • If they feel pressured, they shut down.
    Coaching Approach:

  • Lower the stakes: Create connection in side-by-side moments (car, walks).

  • Use open-ended questions: “What was the highlight of your day?”

  • Validate before you fix: “That sounds tough.” (Resist jumping in with advice.)
    Takeaway Mantra: “Connection before correction.”
    CTA: Grab my free conversation starters in the show notes!

Kate Boyd-Williams

High-Quality Training for Education & Wellbeing Coaches

https://www.kateboydwilliams.com
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